Married 20+ years, not out as bi. The last person (other than my husband) I talked to about it IRL (oh, about ten years ago) told me I was in sin and needed to pray to overcome my "lesbianism".
(whut?)
Not lesbian, tyvm, although I do find women more attractive than men. But I like my husband just fine. :D
It's sort of like homophobia but more so ... if I can like both then maybe the [insert self-hating adjective] fact that you like both too MIGHT REALLY BE REAL and you can't take that, so I must be emotionally killed.
got sent a link to this ...
Married 20+ years, not out as bi. The last person (other than my husband) I talked to about it IRL (oh, about ten years ago) told me I was in sin and needed to pray to overcome my "lesbianism".
(whut?)
Not lesbian, tyvm, although I do find women more attractive than men. But I like my husband just fine. :D
It's sort of like homophobia but more so ... if I can like both then maybe the [insert self-hating adjective] fact that you like both too MIGHT REALLY BE REAL and you can't take that, so I must be emotionally killed.
Yeah.
Thanks for the links!